Proverbs: Wisdom in Reproof

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I was on a mission trip in the summer of 2006 and I left my beautiful metallic blue 1994 Mercury Tracer at home with my family. When I returned, to my chagrin, I found out that the “Blue Beast” had shock and strut problems. The damage was estimated at $1,200. The car wasn’t worth that much. It was time to buy a new car.

My parent’s neighbor advised me to buy a Chevy Lumina we test drove. It was an older model. It was white with burgundy cloth interior. It was shaped like an elongated box. It didn’t have a CD player. The windows were manual. It smelled like moth balls inside. “But, it will last forever,” he told me. I didn’t care. I didn’t listen. I bought a 1998 Mazda 626, and two years and thousands of dollars of upkeep and repairs later, the Mazda I paid $4,600 had a worn out transmission and was ready to be sold for a measly $1,000.

Looking back on this situation, I think Proverbs 12:1 provides a good commentary:

Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge, but he who hates reproof is stupid.

The truth is that in our life there are thousands of decisions to be made. These decisions make life difficult. Most of these decisions are very practical, such as: “What job do I take?” “Who should I marry?” “Should I relocate or not?” “What church should I attend?” “Who should my friends be?” “How much can we afford for vacation?” and so on.

We also have character and personality issues that cause life to be hard. We are either too passive or too aggressive. We are too extroverted or too introverted. We are too humorous or too serious. We don’t listen well and we talk too much. We get greedy, envious, jealous, bitter, malicious, lustful, lazy, arrogant, unforgiving, and self-righteous. The list never ends.

The only way we can deal with making hard decisions and growing in holiness is to subject ourselves to wise reproof. This happens in two ways. First, we come under the authority of Scripture. Proverbs 13:13 says, “Whoever despises the word brings destruction on himself, but he who reveres the commandment will be rewarded.” Second, we need to come under the counsel of wise men and women. Proverbs 11:14 says, “Where there is no guidance, a people falls, but in an abundance of counselors there is safety.”

The Scripture submission may not be hard for you. But what about a person who rebukes you or even offers loving advice? They come to you and say, “I am here to offer reproof, correction, and guidance.” Your first reaction is not normally, “Why thank you! Get out the rod, I need a good rebuking!” But Solomon tells us, “Listen to advice and accept instruction, that you may gain wisdom in the future” (19:20). I have not been a great example in this, but the Lord is teaching me. In order for us to develop as Christians and people, we need to listen to older, wiser, trusted people.

Finally, Solomon has a few words for those who offer rebuke and correction. He writes, “Do not reprove a scoffer, or he will hate you; reprove a wise man, and he will love you” (Prov. 9:8-9). He means that people who repeatedly make foolish decisions and ruin their life won’t listen, so don’t waste your time with them. Remember that Jesus even said, “Do not give dogs what is holy, and do not throw your pearls before pigs, lest they trample them underfoot and turn to attack you” (Matt. 7:6).


Proverbs: The Fear of the Lord is the Beginning of Wisdom

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Socrates is credited by most to be one of the founders of Western philosophy.  Many consider him to be one of the wisest men who ever lived.  Interestingly enough, he is known only through the writings of his students, most extensively through Plato.

Modern-day philosophers look to men like Socrates and Plato, and other Greek philosophers (such as Euclid, Socrates, and Antisthenes) as primary sources to learn about morality, ethics, and virtue.  Anyone who has taken a university philosophy class knows that most teaching on wisdom and critical thought flows, at some level, from the Greeks (with much less attention given to Roman philosophers).

It is interesting to me, to say the least, that little attention (in academia, and in general) is paid to Solomon, King of Israel.  After all, he pre-dates Socrates, dying 462 years before Socrates was born (931 BC), and has many of the same insights on virtue and ethics as other Greek philosophers.  Of course, Solomon worshiped God, Socrates did not; and Solomon looked toward the coming Messiah, Jesus, and Socrates did not.  This seems to be the main reason tribute is not paid to him by modern-day philosophers.

Nevertheless, we have many more writings from Solomon (three biblical and other extra-biblical, as well as over a thousand songs/poems) than we do Socrates (zero).   The Bible would suggest that Solomon, perhaps, was the wisest man who ever lived (outside of Jesus), the richest man who ever lived, and the most honored man who ever lived.  Over the next few weeks, we’ll focus on the Proverbs of Solomon and his advice for wise, righteous, practical, and —  most importantly — godly living.